Why do you attract toxic people? It’s your energy! Learn how to shift your vibe and stop drawing negativity. Transform your life today!
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Intro:
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Have you ever felt like a magnet for drama, negativity, and toxic people? No matter how hard you try, they just keep showing up—draining your joy, peace, and confidence.
What if I told you… it’s not them—it’s YOU?
Not you as in “you’re the problem,” but your energy is sending out an invisible signal that says, “Hey, toxic people—come here!”
But don’t worry—this isn’t a life sentence. You can change it. And I’ll show you how.
“Like attracts like. Your energy determines who stays in your life.”
Proverb & Meaning:
“Birds of the same feather flock together.”
This means people with similar energies, habits, and mindsets naturally gravitate toward each other. If you keep attracting toxic people, your energy might be unknowingly matching theirs.
The title says it all—”Why Do You Attract Toxic People? It’s Your Energy!”
This isn’t about blaming you. It’s about empowering you. Once you understand how energy works, you can stop the cycle and start attracting better relationships.
The Problem:
Why DO you attract toxic people?
– The coworker who always dumps their problems on you.
– The friend who only calls when they need something.
– The partner who makes you feel small.
It’s exhausting. And deep down, you wonder: “Is it me?”
The answer? Yes… and no.
It’s not you as a person—it’s the energy you’re emitting.
Personal Stories:
Story 1:
My Toxic Friend Magnet Phase
A few years ago, I noticed a pattern—every friend I made was emotionally draining. They’d vent for hours but disappear when I needed support.
One day, my mentor said: “You’re a healer. But you’re attracting wounded people because you haven’t healed yourself.”
Boom.
I realized my “helpful” energy was actually desperate for validation, and toxic people sensed that.
Story 2:
Sarah’s Toxic Relationship Cycle
Sarah (name changed) kept dating controlling partners. She thought it was bad luck—until we uncovered her childhood belief: “I have to earn love by sacrificing myself.”
Her energy screamed: “I’ll tolerate disrespect.” And guess what? Toxic men heard it loud and clear.
Imagine your energy is a radio station.
If you’re constantly playing “I’m Not Good Enough FM,” guess who’s tuning in? People who feed on insecurity.
But if you switch to “I Am Worthy Radio,” you’ll attract listeners who celebrate you.
Transformation Story:
Maria was a people-pleaser. She attracted users, manipulators, and energy vampires.
Then she learned about energy boundaries. She started saying no, prioritizing herself, and—like magic—toxic people faded away.
Now? She’s surrounded by respectful, loving people.
Why? Because she changed her energy first.
It’s not about avoiding toxic people—it’s about becoming a person they can’t resonate with.
You deserve better. And it starts with you.
How Someone Else Overcame It:
Jake used to attract narcissists. He worked on his self-worth, set boundaries, and now his relationships are healthier than ever.
Imagine waking up excited about your relationships—no drama, no draining conversations. Just peace.
That’s possible.
Step-by-Step Solution:
1. Identify Your Energy Leaks – Where are you insecure? People-pleasing? Needing validation?
2. Set Energetic Boundaries – Say no. Protect your peace.
3. Upgrade Your Self-Talk – Replace “I’m not enough” with “I am worthy.”
4. Visualize Healthy Relationships – Feel the joy of being around good people.
5. Release Old Patterns – Let go of beliefs that keep you stuck.
Comparison Table:
| Problem (Old Energy) | Solution (New Energy) |
|————————–|————————–|
| Needing validation | Self-assured confidence |
| Tolerating disrespect | Strong boundaries |
| Fear of being alone | Loving your own company |
| Attracting users | Attracting givers |
FAQs:
Q: Can I really change who I attract?
A: Absolutely. Energy is fluid. Shift yours, and your relationships will too.
Q: What if toxic people are family?
A: You can’t cut everyone off, but you can control how much access they have to you.
Q: How long does it take?
A: It depends on how deep the pattern is, but small shifts bring immediate changes.
Conclusion:
So, why do you attract toxic people? Because your energy has been inviting them.
But now, you know how to change that.
What relationship challenges are you facing? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to help!
“After reading this, I set boundaries with my toxic friend. She disappeared—and I’ve never been happier!” – Lisa, Toronto, Canada
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Book a free 30-minute session with me!
Let’s transform your energy—and your relationships—for good.
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